Various information is increasingly open, willy-nilly, to the child's ear. Children today are also more intelligent and critical to the experience of exploration itself. Including around the body and sexuality.

As a parent, do not easily upset when children start asking about the breast, penis, and vagina. Furthermore, if the child begins to want to know, what it gave birth, or start comparing the size of the penis.

Psychologist Sani B Hermawan, Psi, said the seven attitudes of the parents the right to answer the question of children:

1. Take some time and start a dialogue
Be active, do not just wait. As a parent, you need to take the initiative to build a dialogue with children, by providing an understanding of sex according to the needs and stages of children (see stages of sex education). Spend time with your partner to build a dialogue with children.

"Do not just wait for the child to ask you, will be late, the child was already rampant seek information from the outside that is not necessarily true," Sani said in a media workshop at the Annex Building, Complex Wisma Nusantara, Jakarta, Thursday (22/07/2010).

2. Open and informative
Parents need to be more open to children in transferring information. Related about sexuality, parents need to provide an understanding attitude and are not allowed. Grow a sense of shame in the child, said Sani. For example, out of the bathroom should not be naked, but had to cover her body. In this way children can learn to behave and to distinguish good and bad attitude about her body.

3. Complete with materials
Arm yourself by reading various references. A time to time with your partner for dialogue with experts. As a parent in the era of modern parenting, you need to equip themselves with the correct information. Including how to convey the right to the child, such as not using figurative language, but the scientific terms.

4. Use the tools
Communication is more effective when using media or tools. If you require visualization, find the right picture to explain what you mean. Props education around the body that are also able to assist you.

5. Adding insight
Never tired of learning to be parents, using a variety of networks and the opportunity to meet experts. Investing for the future of children is better right? You can find information on a variety of parenting activities such as seminars, talk shows, or workshops. Some may require a fee, but not a few educational activities for parents are provided free of charge, provided you and your partner is sharp and closely monitor the developments.

6. Cultivate that sex education is important
Understanding the importance of educating parents about sex was not uniform. Just the talk of sex is still taboo to be avoided. In fact, by instilling awareness that sex education plays an important role for development of the child, the family will be spared from an alarming social reality. Sexual harassment or pregnancy out of wedlock, for instance.

7. Discussions with experts
Experts who have specialized about sexuality, including psychologists, open space consultations for parents. Not a few sexual psychologist who is paid great attention to the issue of sexuality. Consult a family problem, related to sexuality, the experts. Thus, you get the right information and valid, both in terms of physical and psychological health.